Many of us feel confused and lose in the alluring trap because all of us have tender heart and are always ready to hug the most beautiful scenery waiting for us ahead. So my answer to the most popular question (how to help myself out of the trap) is that we should try to find a perfect ending or glory ending in own heart , hold this and keep going on. God help those who help themselves.
I have found my answer and remedy. How about you?
I think I have got the answer.