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没什么,只是想叫叫你。
记得你曾经说我腹黑,当时看了挺惶恐的,后来想想,是有那么点不经意流露吧,尽管我自己是没有自知的。
我向来觉得,喜欢恶意揣测别人的人,不是自己心术不正就是太自卑,前者以为别人和他一样,后者以为别人都把他看得和别人不一样。
后来工作了,才觉得事情是有些不一样的。
那时候在你们学校跟你聊天,我一脸戾气满腔愤青,你眼神清澈主题分明,满脸满眼的都是一个意思:还不至于像你说的那样吧。
那时候才恍然发现,原来我也在恶意揣测别人了。
是经历所致吧,最初不谙世事的平和,然后看得越多心越不平,唯一的良方就是看得再多点,足够多,多到你总结归纳的明白世事本如此,然后再归于平静。
我不幸还处在那最尴尬的青黄不接。
我最在乎贴吧的时候,是我删帖最多的时候,后来几乎把这个地方忘却了,帖子反而只增不减了,有些朋友也反而失而复得了。
不在意,就不会刻意对它做什么。
刻意做了什么,多多少少的都是有什么心思在作祟。
我会努力看得再多一点的。
介时就会真的平静了。
你明白我在说什么。
么么。


1楼2011-08-14 17:36回复
    Relax!
    Guess what, after those little conversations I had had with you and with her, I just couldn't stop typing down sth to let my feelings off, although it wasn't me who is really going through this. So that was what I did on my Weibo. But that was it and that is all. Finally this years have I learned how to hide my feelings in front of the others who have also been involved, previously pretending to but expressing them anyhow in several insignificant ways.
    And so is the case this time when I'm trying to express sth without being too...
    Hope you know what I mean, because, you know, actually, I'm kinda confused when I read your words above the first time= =. I'm sorry. And on the second time, I decided not to particularly understand a word since you know what you mean and at least it seems you have found a solution for it.
    Explanation is unnecessary. It's fine. But if you need to let off sth, I'll always be there.
    Hell! I know how far I have probably gone from your true meanings. So back to the sincere part, I recommend you to go to the post"我们以前是好朋友 可是现在他不理我了" and see my reply if you don't mind. But the truest thing is that I don't think you gonna need those craps because you're my 菩萨, one of the most interesting, maturest and wisest people I've ever met!
    Well, is that make you any better? Aha...
    Cheer up, all right? Sorry I can't help, but I want you and you guys to be happy as my friends~
    PS. Have to admit that to some extent, I'm showing off in English= =|||
    Nevertheless, this words have spent me almost an hour to get them right(no just the language part you know) and maybe I'll never say them in Chinese ever.
    See the funneist thing? We people can easily say 'I love you' in English but difficultly say the three words in our mother tongue.


    2楼2011-08-14 21:14
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      大半夜的出去开车围着武汉的三环转了一圈,原因是我弟闹离家出走了,好吧,我得说矛盾注意力成功转移了,我几乎已经想不起下午的心情。
      但还是感动你写了这么多,我懒得一字一字看,贴到谷歌上去了,结果发现翻译的太烂,还是自己一句一句的看了下来- -~丫的机器还是没感情啊,纯粹按单词字面意思在翻译。
      (竟然把fine翻译成罚款- -)
      抱抱,看到你那句I'll always be there,总算觉得在这个瞬息万变的世界中,终于有那么一点温暖的存在,不会改变。泪目了一下,唉,人老了就喜欢多愁善感。


      3楼2011-08-15 00:58
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        人有很多种境界,不谙世事的平和,不光是内力的作用,很大程度是外力所致,就好比富翁很难看到美女的现实,美女很难看到男人的吝啬一个道理。但那终究是象牙塔下的平和,经不起推敲。
        不管做出怎么样的选择,在不伤害别人利益的同时,都应该理所当然的维护自己所在小团体的利益


        IP属地:天津4楼2011-08-15 12:19
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          你突然正经得让我有点受不鸟~~~- -~


          5楼2011-08-15 12:25
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            我挺正经的


            IP属地:天津6楼2011-08-15 12:26
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              我正经的时候别人都认为我不正经


              IP属地:天津7楼2011-08-15 12:26
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                看到这些我更感觉我自己抑郁了


                IP属地:河北8楼2011-08-20 21:24
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                  肿么了?为啥抑郁~~~


                  9楼2011-08-20 21:55
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                    工作没有干劲 情绪低落到极点 对什么都没有兴趣
                    虽然这期间我被小小的升了职 但是我丝毫木有兴奋 一丁点都没有
                    不是抑郁就是倦怠


                    IP属地:河北10楼2011-08-21 21:03
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                      ╮(╯▽╰)╭每个月总有那么几天~~~~~正常


                      11楼2011-08-21 21:12
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